We put our whole hearts into things that are temporary, and we still wonder why we end up with a broken heart.
We place our full trust in everything besides Allah, and then we wonder why things don't turn out right.
We set ourselves up for misery, heartbreak and pain by relying on and attaching ourselves to temporary things, we get attached to people, to places and to things. And when any one of the things we're attached to is taken from us, which is inevitable in this temporary abode, we become devastated, we feel like we can't carry on anymore. Everything comes crumbling down.
But it shouldn't be like that, we shouldn't be attaching ourselves to these things.
We should attach ourselves to Allah!
Because Allah is eternal.
He will always, always be with us.
You will never have to part from Him, ever.
Yes we're allowed to love things and people in the Dunya, but we shouldn't let the love overtake and control us, and yes we're allowed to feel sad and grieve when we lose someone or something we loved, but we shouldn't let the grief and sadness control us and make us depressed and despondent.
We should make Allah our first Love.
Our strongest love should be for our Creator, the Ever living..
So no matter what you go through in life,
No matter what or who you lose you still have your Allah, your heart will feel pain at the loss, but it will not shatter, because you love Allah the most, the love you have for Allah is stronger than the love you had for what you lost, and Allah will never leave you, so your heart will always remain whole And strong, no matter what it goes through... ❤️
The heart will rest and feel relief if it is settled with Allah and it will worry and be anxious if it is settled with people - Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله
💖The more you trust Allah, the easier it becomes to be patient💖